To me. The unfinished mead smell is very phenolic leaning towards plastic bandaids but also tastes like high alcohols with a slight fruitiness that is hard to place. Its almost medicinal, to me. I hate the flavor of it, but i love good aged mead when it is done right.
This sounds a lot like what i got from my honey brown that i made a long time ago. Basically your yeast was super happy and chewed through all of the simple sugars at a high fermentation temp. If it tastes like un-finished mead, it is not trash, it will just need a long ageing period to clean it up.
I dumped my tank because I didnt have time or space to sit on the beer(i have a different situation then most on here).
If I were you, I would leave it be warm for a week or two(to make sure the fermentation is complete). Do your standard packaging(corny, bottle, whatever) and tuck those away in a dark cool place in your house and forget about them for a few more weeks. taste one occasionally, it might become a really stellar beer.
like i said above most breweries would be willing to help you out if you can find a brewer.