1) Made the mistake of comparing post mash gravity to OG assuming it was way too low. Consequently added 200g of grain and mashed for another 30 mins. I think the extra 30 mins was a reasonable amount of time but the extra grain was not necessary.
2)Post mash volume was about 10.L. Boil was ok added lactose with 10 mins left or 1/2L left to boil off to get to 7L.
3) Cooled almost instantly to 80 then 75, added hops for 20 mins then cooled to 20 deg which took another 20-30 mins
4) OG measured 13.2 or 1053. Pitched yeast fine. Yeast was already cooking with a dextrose starter.
5) Seemed to stop fermenting after 1-2 days probably 1-1,5 days. The gravity was 10 or 1030 3% ABV which is too high. Left for another 2 days but no action even with a bit of heat treatment. Perhaps the yeast was old and not enough of it.
6) Day 4-5 added another starter of the same yeast oyl-052. Again this was cooking in a starter but agian a dextrose starter. Lets see how this works. If it doesn't then it's a very sweet weak beer.